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Dwelling together in unity - 9/18/2009 8:12:37 PM   
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My psalm for today was Psalm 133 which begins:
Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers
to dwell together in unity!


So today I have been meditating on dwelling in unity with the brethren. Then I visit CW and, once again, find others discounting the teaching of some as false teaching.

I don't think I have a single believing sister or brother who I agree with on each and every thing. But I am commanded to dwell together with them in unity. Just because they happen to have a different understanding of some area of scripture, does not mean I can bite and devour them.

So, how do you discern when to discount a teacher or a friend and not dwell in unity with them? Be as specific as you can be but I'd prefer not using individual names. What qualities or aspects of teaching lead to choosing disunity?

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/18/2009 8:58:34 PM   
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I think the key here is "brothers" dwelling in unity. If you're talking about another Christian (a true believer in Jesus Christ, not just someone who attends church), then you should always strive for unity. As I just posted in another thread, Augustine said:

"In essentials, UNITY.
In non-essentials, LIBERTY.
In all things, CHARITY (or Christian love)."

In other words, I can walk in unity and fellowship with believers from other denominations who might have a different style of worship, different beliefs concerning the end-times, different beliefs about whether or not the gifts of the Spirit are for today. As long as we have unity on the essential Christian doctrines of the Bible being the Word of God, Jesus being the only begotten son of God, salvation being by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone, etc, then we can walk in unity...

By the way, Psalm 133 is one of my favourite Psalms - it stresses the importance of unity. Let's contend for unity in the church!

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/18/2009 11:25:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChristopherJ007

I think the key here is "brothers" dwelling in unity. If you're talking about another Christian (a true believer in Jesus Christ, not just someone who attends church), then you should always strive for unity. As I just posted in another thread, Augustine said:

"In essentials, UNITY.
In non-essentials, LIBERTY.
In all things, CHARITY (or Christian love)."

In other words, I can walk in unity and fellowship with believers from other denominations who might have a different style of worship, different beliefs concerning the end-times, different beliefs about whether or not the gifts of the Spirit are for today. As long as we have unity on the essential Christian doctrines of the Bible being the Word of God, Jesus being the only begotten son of God, salvation being by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone, etc, then we can walk in unity...

By the way, Psalm 133 is one of my favourite Psalms - it stresses the importance of unity. Let's contend for unity in the church!


Thanks, Chris. Yes, I've heard the quote. I've rarely seen it lived out. I've watched churches divide, families divide, friendships end, etc and I see and hear some of that divisiveness here as well.

So is the problem that we differ over 'essentials'? Or is it just a flesh problem? Not walking in love, by the Spirit, that is essential for unity?

Further thoughts?

And BTW, is that quote from Augustine? I was thinking perhaps someone else?

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/18/2009 11:29:29 PM   
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quote:

"In essentials, UNITY.
In non-essentials, LIBERTY.
In all things, CHARITY (or Christian love)."


Good assessment. Some argue to be arguing, some have an agenda and some out of tradition, shallow/narrowness continue to harp. So be it one can't do much about other's attitudes but I can deal with my response.

Romans 14:1-'The notion of[this gifting]isn’t to make distinctions in narrow judgments but to bring the gifts of faith together in obedience. 2 One’s judgment can eat all things in freedom yet some regard such freedom as weakness so the weak eat vegetables only. 3 Neither boldness or frailty are regarded with contempt since the action isn’t the obedience for God has accepted both of them. 4 What business is it of yours since it’s not your servant to order about? Is it not His Master’s responsibility whether he stands or falls for the Lord’s discipline will make him stand or fall.'

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/19/2009 3:26:11 AM   
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This is not a command but a psalm. Poetry is designed not to establish a principle, but to state that principle in a way that gets one's attention or can be easily remembered. It is good for brothers to dwell in unity together, so remember to acknowlege those things on which there is agreement as you are wrestling over an issue.

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/19/2009 7:52:21 AM   
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We must be carful not to be on the side of sin, when we are going forth in unity of purpose with other´s, so that not at time righteousness has no fellowship with unrighteousness, nor does light have communion with darkness. We cannot be intimate with these, lest we end in departing from the faith, and no longer are continuing in the goodness of God, and find ourselves cut off. This has nothing to do with getting along with other´s, but with closeness.
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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/19/2009 10:04:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Bluethread

This is not a command but a psalm. Poetry is designed not to establish a principle, but to state that principle in a way that gets one's attention or can be easily remembered. It is good for brothers to dwell in unity together, so remember to acknowlege those things on which there is agreement as you are wrestling over an issue.


Thanks for the correction, Bluethread. As I walked away after posting last night, I knew I'd misspoken re: it being a command.

But I guess my 'mistake' shows how seriously I regard what is being said here in Psalm 133. Jesus' prayer in John 17 prays for our oneness and Ephesians 4 asks us to walk in a manner worthy of the calling and includes patience, forbearance, love and diligence to preserve unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

So lump it all together and I don't think it's optional; difficult but not optional.

Thanks, LCannon, for bringing in Romans 14 as well.

LastOfAll, what I see is closeness to what I believe and much defending of self rather than loving others and longing for them to know Jesus. The divisions are often rooted in specific beliefs rather than love of Jesus.

No, I cannot and do not share as intimately with my lost friends. They don't share Jesus with me. But that breaks my heart. It's not something I use or hold against them. I weep for their self sufficiency.

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/20/2009 5:07:34 AM   
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How we believe: this makes all the difference. So much emphasis is put on what we believe we forget that means absolutely nothing without knowing how to believe.

The divisions in the Church are not over differences in doctrine but in the positions of the heart.

I have found few christians know the true nature of humility. Therein will find the root of disunity; the lack or misunderstanding of humility.

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/20/2009 9:23:56 PM   
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How we believe: this makes all the difference. So much emphasis is put on what we believe we forget that means absolutely nothing without knowing how to believe.
Could you give us an example of "how we believe", agapist? I personally think it's more important to know why we believe what we believe, not so much how we believe it.

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I have found few christians know the true nature of humility.
How does a Christian acquire the "true nature of humility"? Why have you found so few, in your opinion?

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/21/2009 1:39:33 AM   
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How we believe: trusting, open, and receptive to the holy spirit in each moment, perpetually surrendering ALL our heart, mind, soul and strength to him. We are to possess absolutely nothing.

We must become as a little child. The moment is our sole end, allowing ourselves to be simply a means without ends. We move by a lamp unto our feet, the only illumination coming from the holy spirit. No preconceived ideas. No motives. There is no "I" to compete with God's voice. To be genuine is to be godly, and genuineness is byond intent.

Humility is not the recognition of our smallness in a lowly comparison to God, humility is the realization of our oneness in a loving companionship with God. The right use of will is always submission. Nothing good happens without humility.

Without the submissive heart, the how of our belief, the why and what we believe does us no heavenly good.
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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/21/2009 11:41:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: agapist

How we believe: trusting, open, and receptive to the holy spirit in each moment, perpetually surrendering ALL our heart, mind, soul and strength to him. We are to possess absolutely nothing.

We must become as a little child. The moment is our sole end, allowing ourselves to be simply a means without ends. We move by a lamp unto our feet, the only illumination coming from the holy spirit. No preconceived ideas. No motives. There is no "I" to compete with God's voice. To be genuine is to be godly, and genuineness is byond intent.

Humility is not the recognition of our smallness in a lowly comparison to God, humility is the realization of our oneness in a loving companionship with God. The right use of will is always submission. Nothing good happens without humility.

Without the submissive heart, the how of our belief, the why and what we believe does us no heavenly good.


Oh my, this is so very much right where the Lord has me this morning. I was going to begin a thread on becoming as a little chld. Yes, this is key.

I was reminded of how my parents prayed with me at bedtime. We prayed 'now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep, if I should die before I wake, I pray the Lord my soul to take, God bless . . .' and then we would pray for lots and lots of people. What a beautiful way of ending the day in blessing and praising the Lord and I need to return to such childlike ways. I can easily get caught up in mature things .

Thank you for your thoughts, agapist. You speak to the heart of God and my heart responds. Thank you.

I especially appreciate your definition of humility. Humility is the realization of our oneness in a loving companionship with God. \o/

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/21/2009 12:56:49 PM   
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How we believe: trusting, open, and receptive to the holy spirit in each moment, perpetually surrendering ALL our heart, mind, soul and strength to him. We are to possess absolutely nothing.
Yes, this is the Great Command, which is also what we are to believe and why we are to believe it. So it looks to me like what, why, and how we believe are all inter-related when we are dweeling together in unity with God and others!

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/21/2009 1:03:23 PM   
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dweeling together


I think you've got it, drmark! Dweeling together does sound so childlike. Thanks for the laugh.

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/21/2009 5:27:06 PM   
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quote:

Thanks, Chris. Yes, I've heard the quote. I've rarely seen it lived out. I've watched churches divide, families divide, friendships end, etc and I see and hear some of that divisiveness here as well.

So is the problem that we differ over 'essentials'? Or is it just a flesh problem? Not walking in love, by the Spirit, that is essential for unity?

Further thoughts?

And BTW, is that quote from Augustine? I was thinking perhaps someone else?


Liveloved,

True, the quote is easy to type, harder to live. It is hard, yes, but still something we should strive for. I think sometimes the strife comes when we divide over essentials, non-essentials, or yes, like you said - sometimes just being in the flesh. As we get to know Jesus more, and become more like Him, and there is more of the fruit of the Spirit in our lives, we will be more loving, peaceful - and unified.

In regards to the quote - I believe it was originally said by Augustine, but others have 'adopted' it as their own. For example, I am a minister in the Foursquare Gospel church, and our founder, Aimee Semple McPherson, added that 'credo' into our beliefs...

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/21/2009 5:43:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChristopherJ007

quote:

Thanks, Chris. Yes, I've heard the quote. I've rarely seen it lived out. I've watched churches divide, families divide, friendships end, etc and I see and hear some of that divisiveness here as well.

So is the problem that we differ over 'essentials'? Or is it just a flesh problem? Not walking in love, by the Spirit, that is essential for unity?

Further thoughts?

And BTW, is that quote from Augustine? I was thinking perhaps someone else?


Liveloved,

True, the quote is easy to type, harder to live. It is hard, yes, but still something we should strive for. I think sometimes the strife comes when we divide over essentials, non-essentials, or yes, like you said - sometimes just being in the flesh. As we get to know Jesus more, and become more like Him, and there is more of the fruit of the Spirit in our lives, we will be more loving, peaceful - and unified.

In regards to the quote - I believe it was originally said by Augustine, but others have 'adopted' it as their own. For example, I am a minister in the Foursquare Gospel church, and our founder, Aimee Semple McPherson, added that 'credo' into our beliefs...

Blessings!


Yes (re: the quote), perhaps I've seen others 'use' it and they don't give credit to Augustine.

So, when people refer to some teachers as 'false teachers', is there an essential truth that they (the teacher) aren't teaching correctly? Or is it sometimes nonessential? Is any teacher who teaches other than 'my' understanding of scripture a 'false' teacher?

When is bringing disunity to the body justified? I do want to understand.

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/23/2009 6:36:29 AM   
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I personally have not heard a lot of false teachers. I have heard a lot of opinionated people though. Why is it that we think we are more important than our brothers and sisters in Christ? We like to take a small sum of things and lump it in as a whole. What I mean by this is we hear a teaching and we like to examine it and break it down and test it with scripture. Then our reaction is whatever we learned, everyone else needs to hear it. Well unless you are called to be a teacher, maybe that understanding was for you. We forget that everyone is at a different growth stage with Christ. Disunity is caused by pride. Our pride wants everyone else to be right exactly where we are at. i look at how God has taught me over the years and things he is teaching me now are completely different adn i wasn't ready to accept them years ago. While the truth is the truth no matter what, the guidance of the Holy Spirit is what matters. Is the Holy Spirit flowing between you and the brothers and sisters when you gather? Or are you just speaking out of what you think they need to hear? The Holy Spirit will unify us all. We just like to act on our own accord. How quick are we to quote scripture and spout of ideals and stuff like that? How quick are we to seek Jesus in prayer before we speak? This should give everyone an insight as to where their hearts are. To sum it up logically is everyone learned to be guided by the Holy Spirit then there would be no disunity. It is not part of the Holy Spirit.
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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 9/23/2009 11:34:14 AM   
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I personally have not heard a lot of false teachers. I have heard a lot of opinionated people though. Why is it that we think we are more important than our brothers and sisters in Christ? We like to take a small sum of things and lump it in as a whole. What I mean by this is we hear a teaching and we like to examine it and break it down and test it with scripture. Then our reaction is whatever we learned, everyone else needs to hear it. Well unless you are called to be a teacher, maybe that understanding was for you. We forget that everyone is at a different growth stage with Christ. Disunity is caused by pride. Our pride wants everyone else to be right exactly where we are at. i look at how God has taught me over the years and things he is teaching me now are completely different adn i wasn't ready to accept them years ago. While the truth is the truth no matter what, the guidance of the Holy Spirit is what matters. Is the Holy Spirit flowing between you and the brothers and sisters when you gather? Or are you just speaking out of what you think they need to hear? The Holy Spirit will unify us all. We just like to act on our own accord. How quick are we to quote scripture and spout of ideals and stuff like that? How quick are we to seek Jesus in prayer before we speak? This should give everyone an insight as to where their hearts are. To sum it up logically is everyone learned to be guided by the Holy Spirit then there would be no disunity. It is not part of the Holy Spirit.


Thank you, cposey. You've brought up some very good thoughts regarding what makes for unity/disunity. The guidance of the Holy Spirit is key and it's lack is prevalent. I should say His lack is evident.

In another post agapist said something that applies here so I will borrow his words. For me, any perceived threat whatsoever to faith is purely personal and not an attack on Truth. Any defense I mount is to protect my understanding about truth and not truth itself. We have a sword of discernment and not a battleaxe of warfare. There are no borders to defend except the false borders of my image of self. Standing--being still--in the full armor of God is a placid, immovable object of truth, not a tank. Love, mercy, and compassion are its firm roots.

The truth found in this statement is powerful. There are no borders to defend except the false borders of my image of self. How much time is spent here?

But the Lord is gracious and works through our disunity to teach us of Himself if we are open. I know that He has certainly done that for me.

But pride is at the root of conflict. That's why we must humble ourselves and Jesus is the Teacher of true humility. I have much to be taught by my Teacher.\o/

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 10/1/2009 1:35:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Liveloved
My psalm for today was Psalm 133 which begins:
Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers
to dwell together in unity!
. . . .

So, how do you discern when to discount a teacher or a friend and not dwell in unity with them? Be as specific as you can be but I'd prefer not using individual names. What qualities or aspects of teaching lead to choosing disunity?

Fantastic subject, Loved. Maybe we can all learn from one another here, as well as in some other really delicious threads I see popping up on Crosswalk lately -- more than usual! For which I praise G-d!

It is very hard for me to just toss someone aside, and it is harder yet for me to harshly correct another when it reaches that point at which perhaps it should be done. In many ways, I am so like a child: I have a hard time learning when to start ignoring people. And I will admit to ignoring three persons on CW:

  • one because that person is just too rude for me to handle (it bothers me to admit that)
  • one because that person is just way too critical of everyone other than that person's self
  • and one because that person kind of talks in circles but doesn't mean anything by it -- it is just their way


Wow, I feel like a Major Gossip now. Hmmm. I wonder why.

So when I see the first two persons' posts, I may try to read them because -- overly-childishly-optimistic me -- I hope for change. So far, there has been none. But that is here on CW.

As far as personal friends, the only ones I have written off are those with whom I used to attend church, except for one, who was always sweet and has remained sweet. The reason I avoid the others is . . . well . . . I have written enough about them. Some there were good people, and many were not. That is enough.

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 10/6/2009 7:14:09 AM   
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Hi LL, I have a few thoughts on unity this morning. i agree with the poster that said something about unity having to do with our spiritual maturity or lack of it. That's really what this boils down to. often times we will dimiss or argue things we personally have not come to an understanding about.
I remember when I first joined this forum, I had a righteous streak! I was so "righteous" that I simply could not have the ears to hear. At the time, for me, it was about learning the ways of God, rather than understanding He lives and breathes through me to others. There was little compassion and way too much condemnation. Over the past couple of years He has revealed to me the meanings of the words He has written on my heart. He connected the head knowlege to a heart understanding. That continues and will continue until I go to glory.
Now, disunity is not so much about pride as it is revealing the understanding He has given me. Way back when...I had those non listening ears, I may not have heard then what was being said, but I understand today, what was being said! I remember the posters word's and how they resonate with me now in a "I get it!" fashion. You, LL being one of those person's.
So, while we may have disunity on things, we must always trust that the Lord's words will never return void and that He does work things to His Glory in His timing!
Sometimes, we just have that obstinate road that must be walked for Him to work in us.

Sometimes is just also about combating a false teaching that is damaging to the body. I don't think we are ever to remain silent in those areas. Just like above, God will revel the truth in His own time. But to remain silent, seems like a denial of Him-especially when we know better.

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 10/6/2009 4:17:33 PM   
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Hi LL, I have a few thoughts on unity this morning. i agree with the poster that said something about unity having to do with our spiritual maturity or lack of it. That's really what this boils down to. often times we will dimiss or argue things we personally have not come to an understanding about.
I remember when I first joined this forum, I had a righteous streak! I was so "righteous" that I simply could not have the ears to hear. At the time, for me, it was about learning the ways of God, rather than understanding He lives and breathes through me to others. There was little compassion and way too much condemnation. Over the past couple of years He has revealed to me the meanings of the words He has written on my heart. He connected the head knowlege to a heart understanding. That continues and will continue until I go to glory.
Now, disunity is not so much about pride as it is revealing the understanding He has given me. Way back when...I had those non listening ears, I may not have heard then what was being said, but I understand today, what was being said! I remember the posters word's and how they resonate with me now in a "I get it!" fashion. You, LL being one of those person's.
So, while we may have disunity on things, we must always trust that the Lord's words will never return void and that He does work things to His Glory in His timing!
Sometimes, we just have that obstinate road that must be walked for Him to work in us.

Sometimes is just also about combating a false teaching that is damaging to the body. I don't think we are ever to remain silent in those areas. Just like above, God will revel the truth in His own time. But to remain silent, seems like a denial of Him-especially when we know better.


Thanks for responding, dd! And you've brought up an interesting subject in regard to unity. Combating false teaching is one of those. Here's my situation.

I have a dear friend who I know loves Jesus. She spends time in His presence, in the word, and I know she listens. But she also has this bent to run down wrong roads. I've only been a part of her life for about three or four years but she has shared alot of her history with me. Plus she's sixteen years older than myself. Right now she is pursuing the teaching of Henry Wright who has a healing ministry associating specific illnesses with specific sin. She struggles with high blood pressure.

I know that my talking to her or even passing on printed materials regarding this man's teaching won't be heard. She throws herself into these things and not until they prove false (which they always have, in time) is she dissuaded. And so I pray for her. Perhaps it is more about the Lord's teaching me to keep my mouth shut and rely on Him by praying than anything else. I just have to trust Him to do what needs to be done and which I cannot do.

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 10/6/2009 4:25:59 PM   
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Perhaps it is more about the Lord's teaching me to keep my mouth shut and rely on Him by praying than anything else.


Maybe. It could be more about her being able to watch you walk out what you tell her you believe! Sometimes words can be less effective while our actions are more effective. Just keep on praying for her!

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 10/17/2009 7:22:18 PM   
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Have a BIL who is causing dis unity in the family because he acts like an only child. It comes down to selfishness.

Books on the subject of boundaries were written because of people like him. He was suppose to apologize, but has decided when it didn't happen last Sunday it expired.

Alot of this problem comes down to communication or the lack of.

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 10/18/2009 3:00:51 PM   
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The Holy Spirit teaches us all things, including insights as to where in their walk a person may be, which helps to determine, through illumination by spirit, how we are to relate to that person. This is not something we can do by holding a standard as to how a Christian should behave or what they should know. There is no measure for that. It is on God's time and by his will we grow, by the grace sufficient for each unique soul. I must place my complete faith in Christ continually in all my affairs.
The maturity level you mentioned, DD, is an excellent and vital point to this discussion, and I like that you revealed your own struggle with it. Just by your presentation I can tell that you have made real progress in that area.
It is so easy to quote Scripture and platitudes but we are to form a relationship, which I feel demands we share some of ourselves, exactly where we are at that moment and not show an image of a "good Christian."
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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 10/18/2009 5:53:37 PM   
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Eph 4:1 I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called,
Eph 4:2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
Eph 4:3 eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

I think Ephesians 4 covers this well.
our sermon today was "unity is not uniformity"

as I read the OP I chuckled a little as I remembered a poster telling me that my quote from hebrews was not valid becasue that book was written to hebrew priests and didn't apply to "us" (lol)

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RE: Dwelling together in unity - 10/20/2009 2:10:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: makarizo

Eph 4:1 I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called,
Eph 4:2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
Eph 4:3 eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

I think Ephesians 4 covers this well.
our sermon today was "unity is not uniformity"

as I read the OP I chuckled a little as I remembered a poster telling me that my quote from hebrews was not valid becasue that book was written to hebrew priests and didn't apply to "us" (lol)


Thank you, makarizo, for sharing this verse. It speaks mightily to our topic of unity. So I will add my emphasis.

Humility

Gentleness

Patience

Bearing with one another

Love

Eagerly maintaining the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace


I think it no accident that our scripture, Paul's instructions to us, begins with our walking in humility. Dwelling together in unity is dependent on walking humbly.

agapist defined humility (earlier in the discussion) this way. Humility is the realization of our oneness in a loving companionship with God.

In Jesus' prayer for us in John 17, this oneness was His emphasis as well. . . although I'm not sure He ever used the word 'humility' in this prayer. Perhaps Jesus knew the very word, humility, might lead us into thoughts other than His intent.

Your thoughts?

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