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RE: Is she dropping hints or just being friendly? - 9/18/2009 11:06:04 AM
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WalkingwithHim2
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Ask her if she would mind talking to you alone for a minute. She'll tell the others to take a hike!
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RE: Is she dropping hints or just being friendly? - 9/18/2009 2:59:00 PM
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sudden
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If she has a listed number you could always pick up the phone/
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RE: Is she dropping hints or just being friendly? - 9/18/2009 3:56:08 PM
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Tinkerbell_
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ORIGINAL: WalkingwithHim2
Ask her if she would mind talking to you alone for a minute. She'll tell the others to take a hike!
Ditto! (we think alike too much!)
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RE: Is she dropping hints or just being friendly? - 9/23/2009 7:57:54 AM
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herestoresmysoul
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So? What happened? Did you ask her for coffee? Did she call you? What? 
hey sudden you are nosey (Like we all are. lol)
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RE: Is she dropping hints or just being friendly? - 9/29/2009 2:10:19 PM
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FunBetty
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Trainfan, trainfan, trainfan....
These ladies have offered you excellent advice. I'm coming in with a few more cents worth.
1) Just because a woman is interested in a man, does not mean she will always be interested in a man. If she feels it is a lost cause, she may give up. Been there, done that many times.
2) While the fact that you have projects to take on that you want to devote your time and effort to is very honorable...I would not shy away from a potential romantic opportunity without making an effort to balance the two. Reality is-- once you do find that special someone and proceed to marriage, kids, whatever...they're always going to be taking up your time and learning how to balance life now will help you further down the road.
3) You said she brought a gentleman to the group. Since you don't know who he is, don't make assumptions.
4) You said it was hard to get her alone for conversation. Have you tried lingering after the end of the group meeting to see if she happens to stick around? Also, does this group do anything social on the side (ie. dinner, activities, whatever)?
and like the other girls, coffee is a great idea. You're not proposing marriage to her....just some friendly conversation. Why not ask for a cup of coffee now (with no expectations) and see if there's going to be any potential from there?
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RE: Is she dropping hints or just being friendly? - 9/29/2009 7:33:41 PM
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Tinkerbell_
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ORIGINAL: FunBetty
Trainfan, trainfan, trainfan....
These ladies have offered you excellent advice. I'm coming in with a few more cents worth.
1) Just because a woman is interested in a man, does not mean she will always be interested in a man. If she feels it is a lost cause, she may give up. Been there, done that many times.
2) While the fact that you have projects to take on that you want to devote your time and effort to is very honorable...I would not shy away from a potential romantic opportunity without making an effort to balance the two. Reality is-- once you do find that special someone and proceed to marriage, kids, whatever...they're always going to be taking up your time and learning how to balance life now will help you further down the road.
3) You said she brought a gentleman to the group. Since you don't know who he is, don't make assumptions.
4) You said it was hard to get her alone for conversation. Have you tried lingering after the end of the group meeting to see if she happens to stick around? Also, does this group do anything social on the side (ie. dinner, activities, whatever)?
and like the other girls, coffee is a great idea. You're not proposing marriage to her....just some friendly conversation. Why not ask for a cup of coffee now (with no expectations) and see if there's going to be any potential from there?
What I bolded is HUGE!
Here's a way to look at it and if I already said it, I apologise; apparently it needs to be said.
I'm assuming this woman is a Christian as are you. So this woman is your sister in Christ. IF she is interested in you, then you are not doing what you can to uplift your sister. You see, she sees you, and is interested. You do nothing about it so sooner or later she is going to assume you are not interested and one) possibly feel rejected about it and two) have an even harder time showing her interest to the next man.
IMO, if a man catches a hint that a woman may be interested in him, I do believe it is HIS responsibility to act accordingly; either man up and ask her out, or tell her that you aren't interested in her that way. Either way it gives her a clear mind about things and you both walk away satisfied.
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When I've shown you that I just don't care
When I'm throwing punches in the air
When I'm broken down and I can't stand
Will you be strong enough to be my man?
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RE: Is she dropping hints or just being friendly? - 10/29/2009 5:21:51 AM
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Anon101
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TOTALLY! She is dropping granades, IMO. :)
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