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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/19/2009 11:02:36 PM   
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Sandy @ 32 weeks!
I put a pic of my self on my blog! Taken by my fabulous 6yo photog.


And there is really just one in there?????? LOL...you look great though!

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/20/2009 6:42:08 AM   
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Every woman handles labor differently. I have seen some women that really could handle the little pain they had very well...I mean, look at Erin...she didn't even know she was in labor. Some women have much more intense labor though, and I am one of those. Mine is always VERY intense and starts very suddenly...I never go from 10 or 15 down, I start at 3 minutes apart.


I *don't* want to be nitpicky or start a debate , but not everyone who copes with labor naturally does it because they only have "a little pain". Gebre's was "a little pain". Biruk's hurt like the dickens. And all three were very intense. I know you didn't mean it that way, just wanted to point that out. It really is much more about how the body and mind handle it, and not the actual level of pain. If you're body goes wonky during natural labor, or you just don't want to deal with it, or it's emotionally traumatic, it's great that there are other options nowadays.

It's kind of the same as saying if a woman wants a lot of children, it's only because pregnancy is a breeze for her, yk?

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/20/2009 8:55:56 AM   
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My labor with David was VERY intense. My contractions started 3-4 minutes apart. I also had back labor even though he was in the "perfect" position. I dilated fully in less than 4 hours and spent 2 hours pushing. I spent the whole time in water (my bath tub and then the birthing pool) and it did help a little.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/20/2009 9:14:02 AM   
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Sandy @ 32 weeks!
I put a pic of my self on my blog! Taken by my fabulous 6yo photog.


And there is really just one in there?????? LOL...you look great though!


Oh I'm sure!! I've seen her twice. LOL.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/20/2009 9:54:19 AM   
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Every woman handles labor differently. I have seen some women that really could handle the little pain they had very well...I mean, look at Erin...she didn't even know she was in labor. Some women have much more intense labor though, and I am one of those. Mine is always VERY intense and starts very suddenly...I never go from 10 or 15 down, I start at 3 minutes apart.


I *don't* want to be nitpicky or start a debate , but not everyone who copes with labor naturally does it because they only have "a little pain". Gebre's was "a little pain". Biruk's hurt like the dickens. And all three were very intense. I know you didn't mean it that way, just wanted to point that out. It really is much more about how the body and mind handle it, and not the actual level of pain. If you're body goes wonky during natural labor, or you just don't want to deal with it, or it's emotionally traumatic, it's great that there are other options nowadays.

It's kind of the same as saying if a woman wants a lot of children, it's only because pregnancy is a breeze for her, yk?

Sorry,...I meant to say that too, just didn't have time. Justice started crying when I was in the middle of typing so it threw me off my train of thought....lol.

Labor hurts...that's just all it comes down to. Those people that say "it's just a little pressure"...YEAH RIGHT...PRESSURE my foot!!!! It HURTS. Like Maggie said though, some handle it better mentally and physically and emotionally, while others (like me) don't and opt to take drastic measures.

I will say this though...IME other minor pain meds don't really do much good. Every time I have tried other stuff I still ended up having to get the epidural too because it was still not very helpful. So now I just jump straight to the big stuff. Some people on here though have said they got a lot of needed relief from other pain meds that weren't as drastic as the epidural.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/20/2009 9:58:31 AM   
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{{{peculiar}}}
I'm glad you didn't take offense. I didn't want it to turn into a war.

My only experience with other pain meds was Stadol (demarol? are those the same thing?). Whatever it was, it wasn't pain-relief. Just made me loopy and out of control.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/20/2009 10:41:46 AM   
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My only experience with other pain meds was Stadol (demarol? are those the same thing?). Whatever it was, it wasn't pain-relief. Just made me loopy and out of control.

Stadol (butorphanol) and demerol (meperidine/pethidine) are different things.

I had pethidine with my first labour and it made me loopy too. Felt like I was outside my body looking down on myself in pain (and I was still in pain); it also gave me tactile hallucinations - eg I'd pick up a bottle of water to have a drink and then find I wasn't holding anything.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/20/2009 1:22:16 PM   
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{{{peculiar}}}
I'm glad you didn't take offense. I didn't want it to turn into a war.

LOL...nah, them ain't fightin words...lol

I agree about stadol..it was horrible...just made the pain not go away but made me totally out of it and not able to do anything to handle it.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/20/2009 1:26:59 PM   
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I've not had stadol..but I did have Nubain once, and that was pretty good. Made me feel like I'd had one too many (drinks)...but not to the point where I felt out of control. Just lightheaded and relaxed. Just enough to take the edge off...but not enough to make me not hurt. An odd balance. But it worked!

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/21/2009 1:13:21 PM   
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Hiya! I'm fine (thanks for checking in, Manda!) ... I'm down to "about five weeks" and feeling a little more fortitude re the rest of this. From 8wks left to 6wks left, I felt positively negative!

I have a HUGE craving for ice ... I chew up gobs of ice every day ... could that be some kind of deficiency?

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/21/2009 3:00:22 PM   
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Isn't ice on the pica list?

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/21/2009 3:46:30 PM   
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that's what I was thinking too...I just couldn't remember what the heck it was called.

ETA: yes it is. How long has it been going on Hazel? Have you had your iron checked lately?

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/21/2009 4:00:14 PM   
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Oh, what is pica? I was like this with my first two, as well. I tend toward anemia ... haven't been checked in a while ... maybe I'll try a suplement and see if my craving goes away!

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/21/2009 4:29:24 PM   
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pica is the urge to eat things that are not food (chalk, dirt, ect) or things that are food..sorta, like ice chips to the point of excess.
Pica is part of severe anemia.
I would say you should get your iron checked...and think about a supplement. There are some very good natural ones, if you want to avoid the nasty side effects of OTC iron pills.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/21/2009 4:58:24 PM   
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Are you taking prenatal multi-vitamins?
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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/21/2009 4:59:39 PM   
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I craved ice cubes in the evenings for the last 8 weeks of my 2nd pregnancy but didn't have anaemia. It seemed to have the effect though of making sure I didn't have the terrible heartburn that I'd had with my 1st pregnancy!

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/22/2009 7:58:20 PM   
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I have a drs apt tomorrow. Prayers please. I'm considering asking him to check me to see if I have progressed since my 36 wk apt. I was at 3 cm then. I really don't mind being induced, but at the same time, it would be nice to just let my body work like it's made to. I guess the deciding factor will be my bp.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/22/2009 9:00:07 PM   
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We saw the heartbeat! They pushed my due date back a full week - my EDD is 2/14/2010. The baby is so very tiny right now that the tech had trouble even getting a good measurement. I have a second ultrasound in 4 weeks to confirm the date/size. I am also feeling less tired. Which is really good since my big boy (turned 2 on Sat.) has been getting kind of antsy lately. How is everyone else doing?

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/22/2009 9:23:23 PM   
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Congratulations, Kris! It brings me a sigh of relief to hear that little heart pounding away I'm 34 weeks now, so kind of coasting to the finish ... I'm feeling better than three weeks ago, oddly enough. Am getting eager to get my hands on this little person!

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/22/2009 9:32:07 PM   
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Thanks! It'll still be a few weeks before we get to hear our little "lentil". Yes, we are the crazy people who call our baby whatever food it is approx. the size of that week. It was very reassuring though to see the little "blinker" going strong. I thought I saw it but wasn't sure, but then Mark mentioned it and the tech agreed that it was that teeny, tiny little heart. I actually feel better about things now. I just don't have that "yippee, I am pregnant" thing this time and was feeling kind of weird about it. I do have that "wow, there is a little life growing in me" thing going on now so that is good. I think maybe I was feeling so shocked that I didn't REALLY process it until this morning. Well, enough self musing for now!

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/22/2009 9:39:25 PM   
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Listening to the heartbeat is cool....similar to feeling the baby move. It is very reassuring that things are all ok in there.

I'm actually feeling really good. Other then feeling the baby move here and there and the slowly growing belly, I don't really feel pregnant right now...LOL. It is all very weird! I think part of my feeling better is just not pushing myself too much. I am pretty hungry most of the time now too.

My in laws came over today. It was a nice visit. Although, my mil mentioned that she is not sure what to do with a baby or how to be a grandparent. I told her it was ok because we are not sure what to do with a baby either or how to be a parent. It is on the job training.

I'm pretty tired right now, but mostly because I have been going going going all day. It will be early to bed tonight.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/22/2009 9:41:30 PM   
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Yes, we are the crazy people who call our baby whatever food it is approx. the size of that week.


LOL!!!!! We do the same thing and our family loves it too. My mom or sister will call each week and want to know what food it is! Ha! I'm glad to see we are not the only ones.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/22/2009 10:33:16 PM   
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My bro and SIL did that for a while, but they stopped at "peaches" and called my niece that for the rest of the pregnancy.

Before that they used "grape ape" or "fig newton" and a few others.

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/22/2009 10:51:36 PM   
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All I can say is kudos to you moms who have more then one and are pregnant I am completely exhausted ALL the time, and trying to keep up with Ava, my goodness I am not sure I can make it to January. I feel like the 4 hours of sleep I do get in a night is only 2....and then working...any advice on getting more energy?

how is everyone handling the hot weather right now? (if you have hot weather)

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RE: Pregnancy support and encouragment 5 - 6/23/2009 4:27:41 AM   
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{{{BeeLuvsAva}}} It's hard. Please lie down any chance you get when you are home. I found my toddlers, even though they're active kids, are usually perfectly happy to play near or watch a movie me if I'm resting on the couch.

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