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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 9:22:42 AM   
lexie


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Congratulations Yolanda!!!

Long term goals: Well besides owning a house, and having more children (biologically, adoption/fostering) we would also like:

-to set foot on every continent (so far I'm at 2, Dh at 1)
-retire to Jamaica (or another island but Jamaica would be easiest)

and I personally would like to:

-become fluent in French
-set up a charity to send children's clothes and books to Jamaica

Today is laundry day! Dh is off work so he's going to spend the day with Akeelah and I'm going to do as much laundry as I possibly can. Have a wonderful day everyone!

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 9:39:30 AM   
Mrs.Wifey


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quote:

Oh, has anyone used those "wall stickers" on a textured paint wall? My hubby is worried they won't stick, I think he's nuts (it is a very "shallow" texture, not like ****lies sticking out or anything...)


They should work, I have had the same concerns with some of the ones we sell at Michael's and everyone who has used them says they will work with a slight bit of texture. I think I'm going to buy a small pack and try them first.

Congrats, Yolanda!


My goals-

Earn a masters in neonatal nursing
Snorkel the great barrier reef
Adopt from S. Korea
Go on several more missions trips
Attend a Crossroads Discipleship Training School
Travel all the continents

Micah and I also have some joint ones, but they are kinda dull, lol.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 9:59:39 AM   
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I forgot about goals....well in ten years, I'd like to have another baby and have adopted a toddler/preschooler- or a deaf baby....I'd love a deaf baby- not sure why I hope to be homeschooling, having an organized house, and kids I like to be around. I'd like to be back in Pittsburgh and have friends we can hang out with... I'd like to be caught up scrapbooking and maybe have a small craft side business for fun...

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 10:09:26 AM   
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CONGRATS Yolanda!!!!!!!!

Goals: We've met our first set of goals, which included:
*Graduate College (both of us)
*Have Babies
*Have a little piece of land with a little farm
*Me stay home with Babies

Seriously, those were huge goals we set for ourselves and it felt like 100 years till we finally got there, and sometimes we wondered if we would indeed get there. We are thankful the Lord provided the way for them ALL!

But there are more goals to come for the next chapters of our lives:
*Obtain our Masters degrees (both of us)
*Hubby run for political office (and hopefully be in office)
*Foster Children when ours are older and we have some experience
*Adopt a child
*Write a book, have it published (me)
*Go to Europe
*Travel
*Find a venture to make us financially indpendent (hubby is very entrepreneurial and thinks one day he'll have his own business)

As of now, we just continue to pray for the Lord's wisdom and direction to see where he takes us next. We feel like we need to do what we're doing for a while (work in our current church, raise up our babies).

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 10:38:21 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mrs.X
-When the kids are out, I want to go to truck driving school and be a husband/wife truck driving team with my hubby.

Paul mentioned that idea once I think it's on his "In my second life when my wife is willing to be more crazy" list


quote:

*Find a venture to make us financially indpendent (hubby is very entrepreneurial and thinks one day he'll have his own business)

That is on ours too Paul is very much business minded and has spent a good chunk of the past three weeks at home studying different ideas.



We do work with a lot of goal - I have my immediate personal goals written out and posted on my desk for me to look at every day.
Then I've got 5, 10 and 20 year goals. And we've got our goals as a couple written out too.
Obviously we don't know where the Lord will lead us so we're pretty flexible and open minded about it, but it gives a direction and focus for right now.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 11:24:53 AM   
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Some goals I thought of:
--be a halfway decent homeschooler
--have more kids (Lord willing!)
--own the lot of land next door, and have a custom car shop on it
--be a chaplain's wife!
--own my own business (with my mom)

Sandy
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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 11:47:06 AM   
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Yay, Yolanda!!!! You get come back on here all the time in 8 months! Chase will be the same age as Timmy and Ruth's Nathan when the younger one is born.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 12:33:25 PM   
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I honestly have no idea what my long term goals are right now. Our retirement accounts are taking a serious beating, but when the babies are older I would like to perhaps work part time, if that's what works out for our family.

Congratulations, Yolanda! That's wonderful.

Ladies, I am so embarassed. Nathan is currently the only boy in our weekly playdate group, and today he bit a little girl ON THE FACE. He didn't break skin, but her face swelled up good and she's gonna have a bruise. He hasn't bitten anyone in well over a month, and he only bit another child once before, and that was several months ago. I thought we were passed this stage.

But they were hugging and being sweet, and he just turned his head and clamped down. And that wasn't all too. He was especially aggressive, pushing and pulling. He can plow over the little girls who are a good bit older then him. I do discipline, but it's such a work in progress. And today he seemed very off, he was chewing on his fingers and just didn't seem like himself. I told Nathan we're not going to get invited to play with kids anymore if he keeps this up.

Well, we're having our first rain in weeks, and we need it bad. That's a blessing.

Oh, the mom of the girl was very sweet about it, very understanding. But the girl's father doesn't work (doesn't really need to) and he was there, too. He's very protective of his little girl and was understandable ticked off.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 12:49:38 PM   
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quote:

I do discipline, but it's such a work in progress.


That is the key. It is a work in progress. Of course it is! He's just a little guy, doing what little guys sometimes do. Is it right? No. Normal? Definitely.

Stinks though...I think it's easier to be the mom/dad of the bitee than the biter.


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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 12:57:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna

Stinks though...I think it's easier to be the mom/dad of the bitee than the biter.



Hah! Ain't that the truth.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 1:01:03 PM   
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Aww, that sucks, Ruth! If it were my daughter, I'd be understanding too because you did discipline him.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 1:08:12 PM   
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(((((((((((((((((((((((Ruth))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I agree with Stina. Sorry that happened!


Yolanda - Oh My Word!!!!!!!!!! Congrats! How are You feeling about that faint second line?


Ryanne: I tried to look, but the link didn't work?



Goals?

1. Raise our kids to love the Lord and be good to the people around them (Good members of society? lol)
2. More kids. We are hoping for three
3. Own our own home some day. (and paint a wall RED! LOL)
4. I'd like to see what purpose the Lord has for my husband on this earth
5. Possibly home school (Jason is very passionate about the fact that he wants me to do this)

6. I realize this sounds cheesy or obvious, but one goal I hope we're always working on is to enhance and enrich our marriage. I hope we are always as loyal, committed, and purposed about our love as we are today.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 2:06:15 PM   
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Congratulations, Yolanda!



Congratulations to Big Brother Chase, too!!! Wooo hooooO!


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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 2:21:46 PM   
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someone, anyone.. what is the water ratio to couscous??? I lost my cheat card!

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 2:27:53 PM   
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I'm not much of a goals person (Paul would soooo not want to be married to someone like me). Life just kind of unfolds. I understand why goals are important and that for many people they are wonderful to have -- don't get me wrong.

Regarding SAHM/W goals (since this is a thread about that), my soft goals are:

- Worship Christ and trust Him in all things
- Adore my husband and encourage him daily
- Disciple our child; raise him to be a godly man
- Be a faithful sister, in-law and friend

And,

- Organize my house more efficiently
- Get rid of EVERYTHING I do not wear, use or need
- Get all my photographs labeled by event/date/year and in a great storage system for easy retrieval
- Buy a dining room table that goes with my 85-year-old house in look/age
- New curtains in the dining room and living room
- Take up the carpet and have the hardwood floors done
- Find the ultimate chocolate cake recipe (best served COLD)
- I would love to go back to Hawaii for a vacation
- Meet Lexie at Tim Horton's

I think I'll stop there for now. Don't want to tax myself.
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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 3:07:31 PM   
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Congrats Yolanda!!

Goals--I have such a hard time defining them.
Right now what I know I want is:
to develop a closer relationship with God
to become a much better wife and mom
to raise God-loving, upstanding children
to get into the swing of homeschooling and do it really well.
to help dh with his goals of having his own business.

In the far, far, far distant future I'd like to do some "real" writing and also find a way to minister to young women through the birth and newborn seasons of life.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 3:26:52 PM   
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Find the ultimate chocolate cake recipe (best served COLD)


I think I might be able to help you out on that one I have an amazing flourless chocolate cake recipe I could share if you're interested!

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 3:28:56 PM   
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Share! Share!

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 3:34:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: paulsbride

quote:

Find the ultimate chocolate cake recipe (best served COLD)


I think I might be able to help you out on that one I have an amazing flourless chocolate cake recipe I could share if you're interested!



I have a flourless chocolate torte recipe that really is wonderful, but I mean cakey-cake. Moist, fluffy, cakey-cake. I make a good chocolate cake from scratch but I'm still looking for that elusive fluffy chocolate cake....it's out there, just like the perfect white shirt (which I am still on the hunt for) and the perfect brown casual shoes...they're out there, I just have to find them.

You should send me your recipe, though, because cake is always a good thing to try. Sounds like maybe Sandy wants a piece, too. And Jae.
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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 3:38:45 PM   
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yes. sandy needs a piece today. mmm...
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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 4:01:56 PM   
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Thanks guys! Sorry, I posted that and then went MIA... I was taking my computer into town to get it fixed, then rushed around shopping and doing errands, then my friend came over, and now I think I ended up fixing my computer by myself! Score, saved $50 on computer tech! Now, as long as it doesn't happen again...

Jae, I'm feeling ok...it was "planned" so we're all good. Especially now that we're building the house and we'll have a bedroom!!

Oh, if anybody has me on FB, please don't mention anything there, I just took the test this morning, so my family doesn't know yet.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 4:05:34 PM   
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Oh, a flourless cake recipe... sounds good. I was trying to figure out something desserty for a potluck this weekend without wheat.
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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 4:15:13 PM   
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Kim, my mom's employer had a diapers & wipes party for her 3rd baby. She already had one of each, so diapers were the a way to go. I have so many girly clothes from my awesome SIL, and I'm getting a reclining swing lent to me, that what I mostly need is diapers myself.

We're reusing the crib, Nathan is moving to a twin that we already own, but we're buying a guard rail and shoving it into a corner of the room. He'll be able to get on and off from the foot of the bed, so it should be safe, even if it isn't a toddler bed. We already have bookshelves for his room. I have fabric for curtains and pillows.

All we'd like to have is a dresser for clothing storage, maybe a toy box and a little table with chairs for him and a friend to sit at. My baby is growing up!


How very exciting for Nathan! Just make sure that even though you've got the guard rail up you put some pillows or a fouton mattress (that's what we did for Hannah) by his twin bed, just in case he does fall out. And it might be a good idea to try transitioning him now, if you think he can handle it, before your daughter comes. He's going to test his limits with his new found freedom for sure. Do you and your dh have a plan of action on how you're going to handle Nathan's getting out of bed when he's supposed to be napping or sleeping at night?









CONGRATULATIONS Yolanda! How exciting! When is your first doctor's appointment? You and I will be due right around the same time.

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 4:22:54 PM   
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I guess I'm odd man out; I don't really have goals that have a time table. My personality is one that looks at reality and deals well with it... there's little looking ahead and little looking behind that I do and any of that is based on facts, not feelings. No one will ever call me a visionary. There really isn't anything that I dream of having that I don't have, although I am happy to receive any blessing God chooses.

Having said that and looking at the types of things you ladies are posting, I have made two lists:

Things I would like to have
Larger home closer to dh's work w/ more storage, garage space, and two-three extra private rooms
Anniversary Ring for 15th (July 2009)
Flower Garden w/ Covered Area

Things I Consistently Work On That Will Always Be Goals
Knowing God better
Growing my marriage
Helping Churches embody what God says they should
Helping Christians mirror Christ
Being a wise steward of resources (Financial, Health, Earth, etc)

I've been to Bible Study today and only have about 1 hour to be a SAHW this afternoon. Sure would be nice to not go to choir practice tonight...

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RE: SAHW/M Support/Encouragement--4 - 10/8/2008 4:24:23 PM   
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We're still in the process of getting the room ready, but we plan to have him settled there before Christmas, and the baby is due in January. But Elizabeth will be in our room for a little while, anyhow, so it's not like she'll be moving directly into his old room.

About getting him to stay in his new bed? Well, I plan to have the room completely ready and have him play in in for a little while before we move to nighttime/naptime usage. Then I am already braced for a rough first week. We'll just have to be very consistent and understand that it won't be instantaneous process to have him sleeping in a new bed that he can actually get in and out of.

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