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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 2:00:43 PM
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Georgia-Peach
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(((Nicole))) - That does stink!
Jae - All those are emotions you are having are normal. I have learned that no matter what choices you make in life there will ALWAYS be someone who disagrees thinking they know better. We make choices that are right for us and our family (husband and children), no one else. It still hurts when comments are made, but you do what is best for you.
Well, the living room is cleaned and laundry is going. Why do I struggle with cleaning so much, I am such a procrastinator. I feel better when my house is orderly, but I hate having to get it that way...I am lazy...I will admit it.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 2:13:45 PM
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Georgia-Peach
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I should probably try turning the computer off too, it is a big distraction for me...I think I will turn the tv on, turn the computer off, and get busy...Thanks Nicole!
See you ladies later....
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 2:20:10 PM
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Christi - I'm sorry you weren't able to adopt your daughter's sister, my husband and I hope to be able to foster siblings one day. Does your daughter's biological family have any contact with you?
Thank you.
No contact with the biological family. The bio mom has a bad habit of having babies born addicted to crack cocaine.  She asked for DCS to bring papers to the hospital before delivering GB and she never told her family about her. She didn't look at her or anything...just got her things and left. She says it was a rape, but GB and this woman's first child are identical except that the other child is a boy...same hair, nose, mouth...everything. We're pretty sure she said those things (and a lot of other things) because she didn't want her son taken away from her after GB's drug screen came back positive.
However, the little baby girl that hubby said no to was adopted by somebody who is a foster parent in the system and the two of us have talked on the phone and may get the girls together some day.
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(((((((((Christi)))))))))) I feel sad for you. I never knew you adopted and could have had your daughter's sibling too. That would kill me if I were in your situation and my husband said no.
Thanks for the hug.
It really is hard. The baby is adopted now and her mom is a very nice lady...makes me feel a bit better about it. Wonder if hubby will ever come around? Idunno.
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(((((((Christi)))))))) I wasn't aware of that (I knew you had adopted your sweet baby girl, but I didn't know you had the opp. to adopt her sister). I'm sorry.
Thank you, Rachel.
We heard about the sibling right around the time that I unsubbed from this thread last year. That's right when I needed you gals the most. I was feeling bad about all the time I was spending on the computer back then.
Hey, I've been talking to your mom over in the Southern Gospel folder for years! She's a sweetie! 
Yolanda is going to take a pregnancy test in the grocery store.
 That totally cracked me up.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 2:45:26 PM
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InBetweenDreams
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Christi, I am glad that she was adopted to a nice lady at least. Has your husband always just wanted one kid? And thanks for the hugs! Wish-Washy-ness drives me nuts!
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 3:06:17 PM
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I have run all my errands this morning and am soooo tired. AND the house just happens to need a really bad cleaning...the kids have been especially rough with things this morning, so the floors need to be swept, mopped, and dishes put in the dishwasher...and many other things. Hubby is off work during the day hours tomorrow, so I really want to get things done today/tonight so that I feel free to do things with him tomorrow and Saturday. *sigh* but I'm sooooo tired. I feel like a whiny baby...of which there is already one in the house, so I need to get it together.
The boys think that is just amazing to hit the bottom of the kitchen table with their new "prize" from McDonald's. I don't understand that...it just sounds like a lot of noise to me...and they just smile.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 3:44:38 PM
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Georgia-Peach
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Ok so since I last signed off I have the living room cleaned, continuing with laundry, cleaned the kitche, swept and mopped the kitchen floor. I got a lot done, still more too do, but it's getting there. Grouchy pants is up gotta go...
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 3:56:56 PM
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Whereas I got NOTHING done ... kids all woke up super grouchy ... rain came down again, but not enough to flood us (yet) ... and my ankle is really throbbing now because one of the kids decided we needed a rock garden on the living room floor ... which I didn't see until I stepped on it and went over on the side of my foot ... ouch!
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 4:56:29 PM
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eh, ok....it's both of them. They cramp up a lot still but I am used to it. I just know how to get through life without opening things or grabbing things too tightly.
Sarah
Are you going to go for the surgery once Justice is weaned?
they tell me with how bad mine are that it's the only way to get any kind of relief...but that any future pregnancy will make whatever surgery I do get not do any good anymore...so I have to wait til he is weaned and til we are sure we aren't having any more kids. So it could be another year and a half or two at least (my goal for bfing is two years...the last few have stopped on their own though about a year and a half)
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Sarah- hope the potty training keeps going well, and a side note on the sappy military emails- I think people sending them thinking it will communicate that they "understand" and are thinking of you- that seemed to be the sentiment when dad was over there...
yeah I am sure that is their sentiment, but I still hate them...esp the ones about death.
we took today off from potty training...though we may pick it up now. We were gone to stores, park, etc all morning, then nap this afternoon. He just got up from that so I guess it's time to get out of the diaper for the day.
ok..skipping a bunch of posts...I got the general idea I think...Nicole's parents are being weird (again  )....Jae's not pregnant...and Yolanda may be. Anything else I missed? (I don't want to spend the next 30 minutes really reading everything...Erin wanted me to post an update in her thread for her so I want to get over there)
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 5:25:32 PM
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peculiar_lady2
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LOL Sarah. My mom is the only one being "weird". Lots of ladies' kids are groucho mundo today just to let you know. And Yolanda is also getting things ready so that their house can be built! Oh, and a few ladies decided to do some cleaning! And everyone here says they want to send me a chocolate bar. That's about it! 
lol...thanks fir the recap Nicole. If I were still in Germany and could get the GOOD chocolate I would send you some.....but the stuff here isn't worth the shipping cost
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/7/2008 5:28:22 PM
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InBetweenDreams
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Christi, I am glad that she was adopted to a nice lady at least. Has your husband always just wanted one kid? And thanks for the hugs! Wish-Washy-ness drives me nuts!
I don't think he ever thought about how many kids he wanted until GB came along. I think he seriously thinks he couldn't love another child like he loves her. Of course, I don't buy that at all.
Some people do get scared thinking they won't love their second child as much as their first. I don't know why they think that (could be a number of reasons), but usually when they have their 2nd child they love it as much as their first and feel silly that they ever thought that.
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Moo! 
They weren't going to leave tomorrow anyways. Oh well... 
I couldn't sit on that toilet for weeks. He said when you don't use your sewer lines for a while they can crawl into them. We always keep out toilet lids down, otherwise he would've had free reign of the house. 
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