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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/11/2008 4:33:01 PM   
KatMack


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I'll see how succinct I can make this post. Wish me luck!

DH is not a believer (I came to the Lord after we were married). I've been praying fervently for him to come to know the Lord and to serve Him since the day of my salvation. I think things are starting to come to a head there. Our oldest has accepted Christ and wants to be baptized but DH is reluctant since he's only seven (I know the kid's ready). He's agreed to meet with our pastor this Sunday to discuss this with him and I know my pastor won't leave it at just a discussion of Marshall's baptism

I was telling him yesterday about a small group sponsored by my church that's geared towards reaching seekers and answering there questions. I asked him if he would be willing to check it out. He said "I'll think about it."

Now, to tie it all into this thread. Today I called him and told him I was ready to quit smoking but I needed some immediate gratification, a reward of some sort to get me through those first couple of days. He has agreed that once I'm 48 hours nicotine free that he will go to the small group with me! I KNOW that I can kick this now!

Pray for me as I start these first days without and pray for him and the group leader. I'm hoping I can "kill two birds with one stone" right now!

--Kat

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/11/2008 5:02:50 PM   
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Great incentive Kat! Yay!

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 8:46:35 AM   
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12 hours and 47 minutes nicotine-free. I want a cigarette BAD right now, but I will not cave in! I made sure to bring my Bible with me to work and I'll spend my lunch break studying instead of driving around smoking.

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 8:54:48 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatMack

12 hours and 47 minutes nicotine-free. I want a cigarette BAD right now, but I will not cave in! I made sure to bring my Bible with me to work and I'll spend my lunch break studying instead of driving around smoking.

--Kat

Tell yourself that you want RELIEF BAD but NOT the horrid weed that is putting you through this process of regaining your normal self. Once I took my eyes off tobaccoo as any kind of pleasure, only the source of all my withdrawal agony, I was able to focus on things that would help me achieve FREEDOM from its bondage: sugarless gum, toothpicks, beef jerky, snapping a rubber band worn around my wrist, or whatever I could find to distract me until a crave passed.

I guarantee you that each crave WILL pass (sooner than it feels like) and they will be fewer, weaker, and further apart until they are just memories!

And CONGRATULATIONS on your journey so far!!
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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 9:14:36 AM   
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That's the good thing about having quit before. I know that this will pass and I will feel like a normal person again. I'm one that always wants a smoke, but this all-consuming, don't want to think about anything else feeling will go away.

I just keep reminding myself of the message that I'm sending my DH right now. He's seen me quit twice before so he knows how hard this is for me. But he sees right now that I love him enough and care about his spiritual state enough to go through this.

--Kat

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 11:52:58 AM   
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Woohoo! Yay Kat! I'm so excited for you!

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 12:53:52 PM   
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I gave in on my lunch break. I had to go to the store to get milk for the babies and bought a pack. I'm so mad at myself! It was just plain laziness and wanting to do things my own way. I'm going to leave my checkbook and check card at home tomorrow. Maybe with no easy access to money I'll HAVE to be good.

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 1:29:24 PM   
Mrs.X


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That's what I had to do too, Kat. Give myself no access to money to buy it.

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 2:29:13 PM   
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In a way, I guess I was fortunate that I only bought tobacco at one location, a convenience store where I also used to buy gas. I haven't stopped there for anything since I quit.
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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 3:45:30 PM   
KatMack


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JimboFletch

In a way, I guess I was fortunate that I only bought tobacco at one location, a convenience store where I also used to buy gas. I haven't stopped there for anything since I quit.


I think that's a good point. I need to break those routines that surround smoking for me. That means no more drives for lunch break. I'm planning on pulling out my cross-stitching to keep my hands busy in the evenings.

--Kat

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 4:16:29 PM   
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[Scratches head]

That last post wasn't addressed to me, so maybe I shouldn't be expected to understand its point.
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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 4:22:32 PM   
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I am so so so so blessed! I work full-time at my church and also serve quite a bit here. Once a week we have a staff prayer and praise time. During the prayer portion of our meeting, I felt the Spirit prompting me to share my struggle with smoking. I was scared to death! I had no idea what reactions would be. Since I shared I've had several people (including the pastors) come and thank me for being so open with my struggle and to let me know that they are praying for me. I must say it again: I am so so so so blessed!

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 4:26:00 PM   
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That's SUPER, Kat. The only thing better than a good support group is a good support group of praying believers that know you and love you!
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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 4:31:45 PM   
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If there is an issue that is bothering you and you see progress with that issue, more power to you.

You almost make it sound that it's happenstance that anyone ever quits smoking for good and that we should not strive to overcome things that trouble us. Jesus spoke about asking, seeking, and knocking for specific things, not just sitting back and waiting to see what might happen.
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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 10:15:54 PM   
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faroukfarouk, I understand that you may not see smoking as taboo, but I don't think this thread is the place to discuss that issue. The people here are posting because we see the hold that tobacco has on us and want to do away with it. For me, smoking (and overeating) is something that I turn to instead of turning to Christ for solace. That makes it an idol in my life and a sin.

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 10:18:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatMack

faroukfarouk, I understand that you may not see smoking as taboo, but I don't think this thread is the place to discuss that issue. The people here are posting because we see the hold that tobacco has on us and want to do away with it. For me, smoking (and overeating) is something that I turn to instead of turning to Christ for solace. That makes it an idol in my life and a sin.

--Kat

Me too Kat, it is a sin for me too.

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 11:03:33 PM   
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If you guys all can quit, more power to you. I quit some years ago.

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/12/2008 11:04:16 PM   
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faroukfarouk

You may have misunderstood the point of this thread. This is a quitting smoking support thread. In reading your posts, other than the one that just posted above mine, I can't see that you are being supportive, rather you seem to be argumentative. Please, if you cannot support then move onto another thread.

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/15/2008 11:20:17 AM   
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How's everyone doing?

I'm looking forward to another tobacco-free and nicotine-free weekend. The early days of my journey to freedom were as difficult as the last quarter mile of my daily 5.5 mile speed-walks, but they do get better and better until being Free is as normal as the sun coming up.


Day 716 nicotine-FREE, 813 tobacco-FREE
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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/15/2008 5:05:37 PM   
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Still quit, on the 19th it'll be three months. I will then have saved 90x15USD=1350 USD, NOT smoked 1800 cigarettes. I have played 16 concerts without getting my fix (on a scale where 1 is the sun getting up this morning too, and 10 is the parting of the Red Sea, I'd give not getting my post-concert-fix about 7), and I have walked through 15 tax-free shops with discounted tobacco (BIG trigger in the past). i now buy dried mushrooms and cheese. Makes for great risottos!

And I've started taking long walks, we live in a mountainous area. Seven hours today (3 hours of back-tracking not finding the trail...)

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/15/2008 5:12:05 PM   
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Way to go, Dag!

quote:

(3 hours of back-tracking not finding the trail...)



I speed-walk most afternoons for exercise, but only for 4.5 miles at the time (around an hour). I cannot imagine hiking for 7 hours, especially in the mountains. You are one of my new heroes!
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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/15/2008 7:20:41 PM   
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Wow, Silverstring! Right on! Hiking 7 hours? So, you got your lungs back already? LOL! Hiking like that will get them back even quicker I bet, especiall since the air is cleaner over there.

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/15/2008 7:53:18 PM   
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well 7 hours was 3 hours longer then planned! Turned out this way today because of bad planing, and my legs are WASTED !! My ambition is to get a two - hour walk 3-4 days a week as long as there is no snow and ice. Not certain at all that I'll keep this pace up, but I'll go with it as long as I can. We'll see.

And guys, accept credit for this, you've listened, and you've been very supportive. I am VERY grateful to you all!

Hierarchy of priorities:

1: Stay quit
2: Get fitter
3: Get lighter

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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/15/2008 10:42:03 PM   
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quote:

Still quit, on the 19th it'll be three months.

woooohoooooo!!!!!!!!!!! three dancing smilies for you...one for every month!!!!


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RE: Quitting smoking support thread - 8/18/2008 12:36:48 PM   
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Right now (12:36 EST) makes 18 hours 6 minutes since my last smoke- the longest I've made it since I started back in February. Last night at 7:00pm was my last chance to quit and get those 48 hours required to get DH to go to small group with me. My sister told me that it makes sense that I had my last cig at 6:30 last night and couldn't seem to stop sooner. I always perform better under pressure

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