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The View from the Back Pew - 8/5/2008 8:03:16 PM  1 votes
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So here goes...in case you've missed it, I'm one of the guys everyone ('cept revbob and some girl who pm'd that she loves me!!??) is mad at over in forums.
It's not that I'm a bad guy, it's just that after years of hangin' out in the back of my Baptist mega-church, I feel I have certain insights that those if the front pews (ok, plastic chairs) may not have picked up on. How could they? They've got their eyes closed and hands in the air.
All the action is in the back of the church, anyways. Us Back Row Baptists the only ones who get to see who's coming in late, who's taking their disruptive brats outside, whose arm is around the back of whose chair, and who's peeking during prayer. We also get to study body language, fashion trends, clique formations, etc. We can assess the stewardship values of the faithful by examining the fullness of the offering plates, and once in a great while, we'll hear a panicky pastor chewing out an usher or someone on his staff for some aspect of the service that is not going as planned.
Of course, when you're in the back row, you're also secure in the knowledge that there is no one behind YOU, making the same judgments about YOU'RE clothes, YOU'RE kids and/or YOU'RE tithing.
But most significantly, the back row gives one the full view of how a worship program and message are coming across to the whole congregation. The back row is far enough away to minimize the impact of the pastor’s looks or personality. The dazzle of the multi-media effects are a little weaker, and the volume of the worship team is a little lower.
The front row faithful don't know what they're missing, and too often they don't WANT to know.
So join me, if you dare, in the back pew, and take in the view. We serve a great God, who has blessed us with a flawed, dysfunctional but wonderful family of believers. Will this blog will be at all helpful in the building up of these saints and/or the church? Only time will tell. It will also tell whether or not this endeavor is the best use of my time and resources. You're attention and input will help in this assessment.
Thanks for listening,
Joel

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RE: The View from the Back Pew - 8/12/2008 5:48:38 PM   
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I just returned from a train trip up the SoCal coast to celebrate the first anniversary of marriage to my lovely bride. While most of the time I was captivated by her beauty, I managed to sneak a peek around San Diego, San Clemente and Santa Barbara, and couldn't help but notice the absolute decline in public civility in modern culture (or SoCal culture, at least). It seems to be mostly driven by gang culture and hedonism. And alcohol. LOTS of alcohol. The fedora hat has made a comeback with young men, usually combined with fat sunglasses and tattoos, lots of tattoos. Tattoo sleeves on women are getting trendy, also. It all seems to be aimed at coming across as hard-core, a rejection of manners, decorum and/or civility. With it comes, at full volume, a flood of profanity. It projects a narcissistic attitude that says "I'm out for my instant gratification, and if you don't like it, #@%&* you!"
All of this is to say, what will the church project to reach this emerging, hard-core culture. We have an emergent church that embraces much of its post-modern appeal, but is it compatible with the gospel and the fruits of the Spirit? How do older, supposedly wiser Christians influence any outreach? Should we try?

ps - I've opened up a 'Personally for You' post in Community Lounge, if anyone wants to respond. It's called 'Back Pew Review'. All constructive contributions are muy appreciado.
BRB

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RE: The View from the Back Pew - 8/23/2008 10:34:08 PM   
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Okay, pet peeve time. WHAT is with the names people give their children these days? My new bride and her late husband picked solid, biblical names for their (our) two beautiful children. However, most of the other parents of kids at our school, church, little league, brownies, etc., have given their kids trendy, new-agish names like Madison, Hunter, Caedin, Talon (TALON!), Jade, etc. One couple's especially troublesome choice was hung on a little girl in my daughters first grade class; Allura. Honestly, do parents nowadays view their children as status symbols and/or novelties? Are they on the same level as pets? Is naming a child a personal statement of one's chic-ness, a way to out-do your neighbors? What ever happened to solid, biblical names like Jonathan, David, Stephen, Mark, Timothy, Mary, Sarah, Deborah and Rachel? How 'bout Faith, Joy, Hope or Grace? A biblical name gives a child an anchor of identity as a child of God as they journey through life in a world that is increasingly ambivilent, if not hostile, to Judeo/Christian values and faith.
There may be hope, though. In doing a little research for this post, I found this article that says Biblical names are making a comeback, even with celebrities.
http://www.parents.com/pregnancy/baby-names/themes/biblical-baby-names/;jsessionid=A0EXTSCLSWMILQFIBQNR42Q?page=2
If it's true, it's a welcome trend. Maybe this is one way the Lord keeps a remnant of His people.

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